September 2009 Archives

It's the fault of Harvey Stanwick, of 224 Notting Road, Oxfordshire, UK. He hates you.

And knows voodoo.

Fortunately, Harvery just died in a tragic chicken dance accident.

So from now on, life is UP TO YOU!

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Almost every emotion you have that's not healthy can be overruled by rational thinking & things you can control in your body, like breathing and activity.

You are not a slave to your emotions, even the feeling that there "should" be a "meaning" to life.

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This is who I am.

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She is if she's consistently good to you & never wants to fight, has great rapport & body language with you, & you've discussed your life goals. Even then it's smart to live together for a while, and be at least 26. Before then, it's really hard to know what when you feel certain you're right about which choices make you happy & having a stable life from which to consistently give back.

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Both guys & gals have trouble reconciling their gut instinct & animal nature -- things like being too impulse about sex or too frightened to be polite about rejecting someone -- with long-term smarter ideas like letting desire and comfort build before sex, or just saying "no" without drama.

The best you can do is be alert to warning signs & avoid people lacking the confidence to control impulses.

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Yes, but you have to make it happen by being brave & putting yourself out there!

You take the first step to ask someone out, and be strict with yourself about saying no when it's just not right.

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Nice try.

No, you can't succeed by sitting on your butt.

Do you find a job that way?

Apply to college that way?

Get active & you make the first move to say hi to a stranger or ask someone out. Aim for one date a week & say "no" until Mr. Yes!

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Back off or leave them entirely.

The more you avoid people who drain you, the more confidence you'll have. That will allow you to get more distance without unrealistic thoughts like you'll be alone forever.

Actually, you'll have more energy to seek out & be more attractive to other confident people, who make great lovers, friends, & family substitutes.

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You can't breathe without him?

Is that healthy? Being so dependent?

It's a beautiful & romantic idea that you're so passionate that it's bigger than life.

But it's ugly that you're letting your emotions control you, because if you're not stable enough that you could say "no", you're probably not stable enough to judge yes from no.

And that can lead you to "Oh no!"

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I love you Wiliam

I will marry you

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You have to move from being a slave to your emotions to realizing that your heart can sometimes blind you to reality.

You may feel you don't know your problems or have no control or "can't" ask for help. But your head knows you can ask a friend over, write notes on paper & figure it out, make a plan, it's scary but just at first -- then you gain energy!!

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If you were raised in a cult, how would you know?

What if the "cult" were a series of beliefs, just tradition & instinct, about choices that make you happy that you've always assumed work without questioning? Wouldn't now be the best time to use your head & sort out what you're doing & the people you're close to that work or don't?

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They want love & affection but don't have the maturity to wait & build it without playing games. There are some good boys. Just be alert & you'll spot plenty of warnings signs like promising to call & not, or saying something mean or controlling.

Say no to those & seek confident, stable people -- & be that way yourself!

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Be brave and give a gift or make an invitation to do something fun.

Be willing to go slow.

You're in love first, wait for them to catch up!

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I'm Johnny!

I'm like Santa Claus, except instead of presents I'd leave advice cards for everyone.

And I don't do chimneys.

You can read about me at www.WheelQuestions.org

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Psst! I think she's on to us!!

Move in! Move in! All agents!

p.s. no

p.p.s. ask for help!

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Because millions of ancestors and past dreamers sacrificed to get you your dental care, your social freedoms, your iPod, your canned preservatives, your leisure time while machines do your laundry, your democracy & relative peace. Call 800-SUICIDE.

DON'T WASTE IT!!

Willy Wonka knows you start with a world of "pure imagination", but then you have to put it into practice! You can find the sheet music online.

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Have you done anything truly newsworthy?

Read up about the students who get in the news, for running a fundraiser, starting a club, or excellence in the arts, science, or sports. Do some of that yourself!

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Some people are put off-balance by others in their life & they're in such chaos they can't control themselves. Others have given up after some life setbacks & believe they're always the "victim" who has a "right" to lash out, or that life is a game of cruelty.

Ultimately it doesn't matter why, just avoid these people & don't make wanting to understand them an excuse for being permissive!

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I realized that some people just are irritable & it's not my fault.

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Triplets!

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